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Friday, September 18, 2020

poster art

 




This is my final design for poster because look like simple and that design is base on Filipino food style

Thursday, September 10, 2020

Be Assertive Learning Review

 The skills I've learned about in English are to being assertive, non- verbal language. This post is a review of the preparation for the assessment.

here is a link the teacher resource

Answer:

1) Aggressive- means it seeks to manipulate, control, dominate or abused others.
    Passive- means merely accept things to keep the peace no matter what the person needs or rights.
    Indirect- means it can be quite devious and manipulative as seen in aggressive behavior
    Assertive- means you need to maintain respectfully, defend your rights, and satisfy your needs

2) Assertive Communication is the ability to express positive and negative ideas and feelings in an open, honest, and direct way.

3) Describe the situation- be specific, objective, focus on behavior not motives.
    Describe your feelings- use "I" statements. Do not be an emotional focus on positive feelings related to your goals rather than the negativeness of the other person. Explain the way you feel.
    Describe the changes you want- be specific, but reasonable. State your course of action politely but firmly, if you have decided.

4) 'I' Statements - I want to share it with you.
    Think 'we' as well as 'me' -  When all the staff is in an emergency situation and you are the only person to help them.
    Be positive -  don't think the negative side.
    Thank them - Always thank them even though you ask them. 
    Go for agreement - you need to know when she/he has agreed for it.

5) Age- because they struggle when they have someone younger than themselves being assertive in their communication with them.
    Gender - some men have difficulty responding to an assertive woman, especially when they still hold to a belief that women should be more submissive, or at least appear to be so.    
    Bias - If someone in your friends with a bias toward a part-time job, like in Pak' n save or Warehouse, wants to become an architect, that friend bias may create a barrier that hinders them from being assertive about their hopes and dreams.

6) Talking face to face

7) high or low pitched, a monotonous or varying level

8) When you slouch, put your head down, look away, cross your arms, look at your phone, point your finger at them.

9) My mother told me to clean the bathroom then my brother distracting me when I'm cleaning the bathroom because he wants to play together online games. This was an assertive response and as a result, I talk her respectfully to not distracting me when I'm cleaning the bathroom and once I'm done, We play online games. 

10) Assertive, I don't want to change it because I'm feeling comfortable when I use an assertive response.